“没有回报的付出，是不健康的。“ 也对，也不对。只有父母对孩子的爱是不要回报的，是无条件的，至少我们家如此。My parents have never expected anything from me. 当然我能尽孝心，也是我的福气。(meaning I can afford and my parents are available to take the benefits)
By the same token, I don't anticipate my son to assist me in any shape and form. If he does, lucky me; if he does not, fine with me. My love for him is one way, and all the way.
Please never ever tell him that.
Is it healthy or not?? I don't know. Maybe after you have your own kids, you will think differently.
I don't know. Maybe after you have your own kids, you will think differently.
