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作者：mich 在 海归酒吧 发贴, 来自【海归网】 http://www.haiguinet.com
Sometimes I feel as if I have a scarlet letter on my face.
Today, an old girlfriend called to say "Happy Valentine". After a few pleasantries, she again went about how happy she is with her current marriage--the financial security (and small luxury) with the double income, the baby, and most of all the emotional seucurity of a devoted husband.
Then she told me a little story. She was chatting with someone who also knows me. They talked about how lucky she did not end up with me!
Her comments to the friend: "He is excellent as a man, but a different matter as a husband". -- Ouch!!!
I have to say that this was not the first time I got this kind of grade. The basic idea is that I will most likely be unfaithful, which I don't necessarily deny. However, the point that is missing is that I am just like any other men I know. I know how guys (who are otherwise regarded as "老实") are, given the right temptation and opportunities. I mean I personally know countless of these people, but I am not going to tell the stories so you ladies out there won't get scared. The most ironic part is that, in more than one occasions, a lady who is with a man who is cheating on his wife with her, would comment that her man is so much more trustworthy than I can ever be -- I can't resist temptation, but he can except for the temptation from her.
what gives?
I consider myself as decent (or as bad) as any other man, but what makes me a marked one? 
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作者：mich 在 海归酒吧 发贴, 来自【海归网】 http://www.haiguinet.com
上一次由mich于2007-2-15 周四, 22:43修改，总共修改了1次
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