what i was trying to say was simply if you don't love the person you are married to AND you fall in love with another person, you shall not lie to or cheat on anyone.
as i said, if love has turn to a feeling of blood connection, that's fine! stick around by all means!
But don't cheat, don't lie. you will go to hell for that.
well, most people go to hell for other things anyway...so forget about the hell thing.