偶觉得小孩要自己养. 100% with you there, again! There is nothing in the world which can replace such bonding relations when you are with your kid(s) day in and day out. When my son was little, I even hated to take business trips.
棍棒下面出孝子. Sorry 100% apart from you. My parents never laid their hands on me, I am still a kind of semi 孝子. The same way I have treated my son. No matter how naughty he was, I never resorted to physical. You hug him and (kissed him when he was a little) and become his friend.
我想养孩子的过程本身应该也挺有意思的吧. My experience was wonderful!!! You don't have kid(s) yet? What are you waiting for?!