I am sorry, if my post is insulting to you. I thought you were here trying to talk to the strangers with your heart. Nobody knows your identity. If you are or are not in love with someone is nobody’s business.
I happen to know some first wife whose husband plays around. I know how much pain they are suffering. I guess for the mistress it’s not an easy game either. Typically, the guy who has mistress, plays with several mistresses the same time. Because he wants to conquer as much as he can. It’s not about love, it’s all about possess and conquer.