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悲剧啊！北美华人婚外恋 两个好端端的家庭被毁 -- spiderman - (3788 Byte) 2010-3-05 周五, 13:09 (19785 reads) |
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作者：spiderman 在 海归商务 发贴, 来自【海归网】 http://www.haiguinet.com
原配 info
Senior Software Engineer at eBay, was at sun
San Francisco Bay Area
Nan Kai University
总结如下：
马楠去单位找原配，要求原配把自己儿子照片从网上拿下，但原配的回答是：
我没有贴那些，你有什么证据说是我贴的。
马楠扇了原配2耳光。
完毕。
“马小三回信”的原文，总结，及评论
原文：
“Just want to give ppl like you of what we will publish shortly. ----------
------------------------------------- Wilson and Nan open up this blog as
our life has been unfairly devastated by the blog posted by Wilsonós wife
and subsequent personal attacks via our personal emails and phones. The
exposure of our personal contact information and photos is outrageous at the
least, illegal at the most. So we see the necessity to stand up rather than
keep silent to tell our perspectives of the story. You readers can use your
own judgment to see the truth out of it. We are both average people with
weakness and emotions. We admit that we are on the fault side on this matter
without enough consideration and maturity. But we are not completely evil
and without any conscience as labeled in some of the reply posts. You might
agree that the breakage of any marriage shouldnót be due to only one party
of the couple. A solid marriage couldnót be broken up just because of an
external temptation. For the 4 adults involved in this, we are all
their first dates, which led to their marriage. We are all simple people
without too much emotional experience. As the first generation immigrants,
we came to the country for school. We experienced the economic downturn, job
instability, immigration status. We have never stopped struggling and
fighting for life until we reached the age to consider having kids. And the
arrival of kids has been keeping us busy enough. Unfortunately over the
years, the emotional banks of our marriages are severely overdrawn. In
Wilson's case, he and his wife experienced a lot medical treatment for a
couple of years to have their first daughter. Their second daughter's
natural arrival is an unexpected gift from heaven. Wilson and Nan got to
know each other at friendsó party and connected as good friends since
September 2008. We both struggled a lot and tried to get out of this
relationship as
hard as we could. We experienced rounds and rounds of breakups especially
after the news of Wilsonós wifeós second pregnancy. However over time the
emotion evolved to a point where Wilson and Nan decided to tell their
respective families on 12/20/2009 as Nan couldn't handle the conscience
pressure of keeping her husband in the darkness any more. Due to their
strong belief in their love, Wilson decided to do the same rather than leave
Nan alone in this kind of situation. In retrospect, they realized how bad
the timing is as Wilson's wife was still bread feeding. After the
announcement, Nan and her husband managed to maintain a friendly and civil
relation and they decide to share custody of their son. Wilson had to stay
in the house for
the young kids because no agreement could be reached. Wilson proposed to
leave all the financial property and house to wife and share custody of the
kids. Considering the financial burdens of his wife, Wilson brought Nan to
the same page to provide half of the mortgage of the current house even
after the divorce. Since it happened, Wilson has been taking care of their
baby daughter on weekend days and nights and holidays almost full time while
the nanny were not present. We agree with most the ǒfactsō in Wilsonós
wife's post. But the selection of the facts is severely biased and
misleading. Take the example of the 2/14 night, here is the whole story: 2/
12/2010 7PM Wilson took over his baby daughter from nanny for the entire
night. 2/13/2010 Wilson took care of his baby daughter the entire day. 2/13/
2010 9:30PM after putting the baby to night sleep, Wilson went out to say
Happy New Year to Nan. 2/14/2010 In the morning Wilsonós wife told him that
she would take both kids to the tech museum to meet her girl friend and
kids. Then Wilson went out to run some errands and met Nan. We also had
Wilson's
wife and Nan's husband to review this before we make these facts public.”
总结：
“好像基本意思就是保暖思淫欲。以前生活艰难啊，自己和wilson都是还没搞明白
对自己那位的感情就稀里糊涂生了娃，现在爱如潮水，实在是等不及wilson老婆过
哺乳期了，wilson虽说除夕夜出来和我幽会，但他那是看了一整天娃之后啊，已经
尽了做父亲的责任了，他老婆blog说的虽说是事实，但是没提wilson带娃所以是bias的
。我们其实都是挺负责任的人， 我们还打算看在他老婆经济困难的份上，离婚后还付
一半house的mortgage，我们这么够意思的人到哪里去找？反被你们说的这么不堪!”
评论：为什么出轨者被人骂？
“道理很简单，这些人既要做XX又要立牌坊。
无论什么原因，只要出轨了，就是背叛了自己的配偶，除非是open relationship。人
非圣贤，会选错人。时光流逝，爱情会褪色，也是常情，都没什么。婚姻关系又不是血
缘关系，不合适当然可以结束。
愿意回头的，认个错，回头是岸；
义无反顾的，交割清楚，恢复自由身去追寻自己的梦想。
左右为难或游戏人生的，辛苦点，脚踩两只船不易，小心翻船，还要顾好自己的良
心。另外，很重要的，要低调，自己悄悄地痛并快乐著就好了。
可是来这里倾诉的出轨者们，非要摆一副受害人的模样，给自己戴个寻求真爱的帽
子，还企图博得大家的同情。以为你比这儿的姐妹们貌美还是聪明啊？
大家都见过世面，但要我们帮著xx立牌坊还是太过分了点。”
作者：spiderman 在 海归商务 发贴, 来自【海归网】 http://www.haiguinet.com
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