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懂得欣赏的人不一定看不到缺点，懂得赞美的人不一定丧失了骂的能力。 -- wwy - (1101 Byte) 2009-12-04 周五, 11:39 (1478 reads) |
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作者：IT农民 在 海归商务 发贴, 来自【海归网】 http://www.haiguinet.com
I remember when the network first came to go, there is a such a feeling is very keen on the point of view of criticizing the criticism in the form of high-profile appearance in order to criticize instead of unreasonable and communication, slowly, everyone seems to have become accustomed to the. And acceptable regardless of whether the individual, but the curse has become an environment in which many people think that only the accused can Jiehen in order to express their anger and perspectives.
In fact, many people were all very different point of view we have very good, but eventually became owners of the curse. Is well understood, we live in space there is a coercive force and violence, although it is different, but people have to in accordance with this trend and direction of progress.
This curse is not unreasonable, irrational, and the performance is not the form of civilization, it is always very thick very rude. Is a name of morality, progress, flags, Line arbitrary substance.
Finally there is no exchange of ideas, thought there is no collision, there is no understanding of each other, leaving the attacks and verbal abuse, and argument has been lost somewhere along to counter anger has become the principal contradiction.
Some people say that should not even think too much, think little more work, in fact, for the people, there are two very fundamental problems, namely, values, and that is why people live and why society exist? It is said that no reason. Another problem is that people's behavior, that is how the issue alive.
These two issues are important, otherwise Hunhundundun I do not know the whole story every day do not know where to go today, and then how to get that if these issues do not have to study, then it can only be thrown to where is where we are.
Exchange of views is that we have to find out why the exchange of views, how the exchange.
Many critics just a vent emotions, and no sign up is a curse roundly meal, and spared from war. Often find that the results become a chicken and ducks dialogue, you have to call you my saying that I, and absolutely no common ground there would be no harvest at all in any of the. Finally his eyes growing more and more narrow shallow, very few people are willing to express their views and then, but a stick, when crushed, children, and also with the bath water poured out.
Internet for everyone to exchange offers unparalleled degree of freedom and space, everyone no matter where you are, ideas are everything can be said, but people's hearts are not with the larger network. There is a dark side of human nature, and how to find other people's strengths and good indeed not so easy. A lot of constructive criticism is really difficult to find traces of just an emotional expression and catharsis, and even without any reason, up meal curse roundly, and then walk out.
The real criticism should be polite, there are a gentleman scholar of the degree of wind, there is constructive. Each person could contribute their own ideas, rather than the other side yelled Gouxue nozzles, worthless as a way to prove their line or their own right.
By criticizing others to prove themselves will not do is not enough.
We look at a lot of problems and phenomena of the time, the mentality will play a large role, such as geographic, ethnic, national, political parties will look at what kind of mentality, the same phenomenon seen in the conclusion is different. Do we want to also let off a rather victimizes 100, or should I rather let 100 do not do an injustice, and this is the mentality at work. Kind of mentality is to encourage the type, vision is beautiful, positive, and always see the inherent good, smell the aroma appearance. The other is prick type, eyes are dark, and negative. Coupled with quick success and the atmosphere is now more impetuous, prick type of curse it is not hard to understand.
作者：IT农民 在 海归商务 发贴, 来自【海归网】 http://www.haiguinet.com
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