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太晚了。应该在宝宝安定后（4个月之后？）就再点燃。。。 -- 瘦马西风 - (0 Byte) 2008-9-22 周一, 22:02 (463 reads) |
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作者：山东斯汀 在 海归酒吧 发贴, 来自【海归网】 http://www.haiguinet.com
How to reignite your sex life after a baby? Have you had a baby and lost your sex life? You’re not alone. It’s the rare couple that can have a baby and not miss a beat sexually. But you can get back that loving feeling.
You will need: Creativity, Lubricant, Spontaneity, Self-acceptance, Tact, and a babysitter.Optional: Birth control.
Warning: Get your doctor’s go-ahead before having intercourse. Most advise waiting 6 weeks after childbirth.Step 1:
Try to pinpoint which is coming between you and ___, the sex hurts, are you exhausted. Stop concentrating on the actual pounds __you actually lose. To rap about your baby even think about sex.
step 2
resolve the tact issues that apply you one by one,for most new parents it's a combination of things.
step3
if painfall has cause the problems,try different position,woman on top and side by side keep pressure of tender neither rigion.even if you are nursing ,you can get pregnant.the best postpartum contraceptive is a condom.Since hormonal __can interfere with lactation and diefirm (?) have to be re-faded after childbirth.
Step 4:
Get a good lubricant. Both breast-feeding and lower libido due to exhaustion can cause vaginal dryness.
Tip: Use only water- or silicone-based lubricants when use a condom. Oil-based product, like petroleum jelly, massage oil, can break down the latex.
Step 5:
Get creative about finding time to get busy. Do it while the baby naps first in the morning. Grab quickly wherever you can, the couch, the car and the kitchen.
Tip: Don’t worry about having sex while the baby is in the same room. She wants have a clue on what’s going on.
Step 6:
Relax about your figure. Pregnancy definitely rearranges things, but changes are a little extra padding what your partner at all. He may appreciate those extra-curbs.
Step 7:
Go that extra miles to get thing started. A little dirty talker on the phone, a suggestion of not to touch the book is reading and a runic movie.
Step 8:
Be diplomatic about the ___ your life has taken, instead of warning we never have sex any more and say something like I miss kissing you and touching you.
Tip:
If your breasts are tender from nursing, make them off-limits for now and leave your bra on, just make a sexy one.
Step 9:
Get somebody to watch the baby so that you can get out.
Step 10:
That’s sure that this life style won’t last for ever. Just look at all those families that have more than one kid.
Did you know? Research shows that fifty percent of first time parents describe their sex lives as poor or not very good 8 months after the birth of their baby.
请大家校对一下今天的听写作业(all credits goes to cincin81)
作者：山东斯汀 在 海归酒吧 发贴, 来自【海归网】 http://www.haiguinet.com
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