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O叔, 有钱没钱, 男孩子要穷养, 女孩子要富养, 才对的 -- wiser56 - (9 Byte) 2008-1-07 周一, 02:11 (443 reads) |
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作者：ceo/cfo 在 海归茶馆 发贴, 来自【海归网】 http://www.haiguinet.com
my belief is under the precondition of not spoiling the boy, we as parents shall provide our children everything possible within our financial means. 一方面要让孩子懂得钱来之不易，要学会manage money 成为一个financially responsible person, 另一方面，孩子该花钱时要舍得让他花，免得使他以后待人接物时缩手缩脚。交朋友是要花钱的。这也是大气的一部分。他得懂得节流不错，但更重要的是学会开源。花钱老是战战兢兢的，太累。我也曾是一文不名的留学生。咱留学生的后代deserve better than us, right?
男孩贪玩，调皮捣蛋，是天经地仪的, as long as 不吸毒，逃课，等等。虽然他成绩几乎门门A, 有阵子老师天天"dating" 我，告洋状,说是他玩得太凶，played soccer 太野，even he was the smallest in size at the class. 还有一次校长unfair,十多个孩子在Cafeteria food fighting, he only picked up my son for detention. I went to school to reason with him and told him: "You suck as a principal!", in public. The following day my son told me that alll the students at school said your dad is our tough hero; he said to Mr. Headmaster "you Fxxk."  I guess all the pupils wished that I used F word. If my son did wrong things, I would definitely side with the teachers; but if whoever treated him unfairly at the school, I never feel shy to be on my son's side and never let it go. I wanted my son to know that no matter what I will be always there for him.
还有我从不让孩子去做送报童，或 flip hamburgers. That is sheer waste of time; on the other hand he was a volunteer at the local librury for many years helping people with computers and also worked at a computer company for two summers when he was at the high school.
我这算啥培养法阿？？ 
作者：ceo/cfo 在 海归茶馆 发贴, 来自【海归网】 http://www.haiguinet.com
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 [原创][和tahiti的人生如棋说]布局开局靠父母，中盘官子靠自己，输赢成败自由天 -- 笨猪塔克 - (2356 Byte) 2008-1-06 周日, 21:04 (2718 reads) - 说的不错 -- wiser56 - (27 Byte) 2008-1-07 周一, 02:01 (432 reads)
- 顶一下，总结的很全面 -- 蝴蝶 - (25 Byte) 2008-1-06 周日, 21:50 (394 reads)
- 走过路过 -- 笨猪塔克 - (29 Byte) 2008-1-07 周一, 00:27 (303 reads)
- 顶一下 -- snowbird2006 - (149 Byte) 2008-1-06 周日, 21:36 (431 reads)
- 谢顶啦 -- 笨猪塔克 - (189 Byte) 2008-1-06 周日, 23:48 (308 reads)
- 小孩子有你们这样的父母真是幸运.（应该跟猪导的后面） -- BinarySuan - (193 Byte) 2008-1-06 周日, 22:41 (485 reads)
- 嗯，俺承认 -- 笨猪塔克 - (112 Byte) 2008-1-06 周日, 23:55 (336 reads)
- 没这话。有条件的孩子一定要富养。穷是TMD -- ceo/cfo - (30 Byte) 2008-1-06 周日, 22:48 (525 reads)
- O叔, 有钱没钱, 男孩子要穷养, 女孩子要富养, 才对的 -- wiser56 - (9 Byte) 2008-1-07 周一, 02:11 (443 reads)
- Really I have no idea about the definition of 穷养 here; -- ceo/cfo - (1438 Byte) 2008-1-07 周一, 08:25 (460 reads)
- O哥真牛逼 -- 错误 - (0 Byte) 2008-1-07 周一, 17:32 (297 reads)
- 算放养 -- wiser56 - (31 Byte) 2008-1-07 周一, 08:54 (373 reads)
- 我觉得放养不太准确 -- 错误 - (14 Byte) 2008-1-07 周一, 17:32 (300 reads)
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