no ladies. This is 98, not a library. If a lady is willing to expose herself in whatever ways, there will be surely tons of cheerleaders behind. If some men are fantasizing, don't you think that is normal. Besides, I would even go further to state that the lady may not care that much, at least as much as you do. She is surely smart enough to know what is coming next in the very beginning.
So stop acting like a moralist here. Be real and be passionate. There is only a fine line between sense and sensibility, which is applicable for both men and women here.
