I mean, Sorry for saying this, but I doubt the 33-year-old-phd-to-be's so called "love" and you might as well be high on fantasy drugs... oops, there, i said it...
如果这位男同学也在看这帖子,别生气,没别的意思,只是说,it might be good to take a second look before dramatic action taken. 看看是不是荷尔蒙惹的祸。。。