the women is mentally fortified, she 's learned to take control of her life, not a bad thing for ordinary people who might never straight out their life without a big life event
the men did steer the direction a bit, only to fall prey of this younger women, who to say the least is a .....(I meant to say WTF a family-breaker)...the net result is he made a little gain but lost out big.....of course he gets to live with the GUILT the rest of his life...