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作者：扫地僧 在 海归酒吧 发贴, 来自【海归网】 http://www.haiguinet.com
“3秒法则”是指在看到中意的女孩后，要在3秒内采取行动。即使你不能想到任何好方法，即使你不知道下一步该怎么样，无论你决定做什么，永远在3秒内行动。
即使你还没想好开场白，她就出现在你面前，你至少应该说“嗨”。建议你预先准备好一些开场白，如“你父母是哪里人，你怎么这么白（或高）？”
如果你在3秒内行动，不管她是刚刚从哪里进门，不管你们是如何相遇，她都会注意这点。她将会注意到你的果断气概，这才有利于你进行生嗑的下一步。第一印象才是最重要的。如果你给人的第一印象是自信又自然的男人，她对于你的感觉从一开始就会是积极正面的，那将减少你被淘汰的机会。而且，一个好的开始有助于你在接下来的步骤中保持信心。
如果你等候，犹豫，然后才决定接近她，那从一开始你就处于弱势。犹豫会给本来就缺少自信的你，制造一个想象产生坏结果的机会，让你行动起来更加没信心。依“3秒法则”，你不需要等候眼神接触，不需要等候到她注意到你，不需要等候到可以表现你自己的机会。你不应该让一个女人察觉你的犹豫不决。你犹豫愈长，给人印象就愈是没有信心。同时，犹豫不决会给她感觉你是个胆小无用、惴惴不安的人。
在三秒中，你没有时间去变紧张、忸怩怕难为情、出汗、 动摇。而这些正是呆瓜常出现的症状，他们在女人面前缺乏信心和气概。即使在应用“3秒法则”之后，你仍然开始出现那些症状，但至少在你开始接触她时，你不是那样的。
呆瓜就会站着或坐着不敢动，想着被拒绝的各种情形，越想越害怕，导致自己变得紧张焦虑，即使他们最后确实行动起来，往往就是一副忸怩懦怯的神态。犹豫等候也等于给其他男人创造机会。你等候愈长，其他男人愈有时间和机会去泡走你看中的妞。
“3秒法则”也不是绝对的。当她进入你的环境的时候，你可能还没注意到她，或也许有障碍让你接触不了她。“3秒法则”是从你已经注意到她而且可以自由接近她的时刻起开始计算。从你已经注意到她而且可以自由接近她的时刻起，你真的没有时间去想深的想法，没有时间去揣测：是否她注意到，你没有接近她是因为你手上有要忙的；或是否她注意到，你在担心你的意图太明显。
有一些环境是不适合应用“3秒法则”的。举例来说，你不要生嗑正在银行存取钱的美女。又如，在一个满是美女的房间中，你就需要时间扫描一下那几个美女是你实际想要接近的。显然在3秒中，你不可能接近俩个在房间的不同位置的美女。
(摘自 www.eat2.cn)
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The point of the 3s rule is to propel you to approach women fast enough to keep your internal voice from talking you out of it and avoid hesitation. You do
not want a woman to see you hesitate. The longer you hesitate, the more insecure and sappy you appear. Also, hesitation creates an added sense of nervousness
to your mental state - a personality trait you do not want to portray when approaching women.
Even if you can't think of any way to initiate a conversation with a woman, whatever you do, don't break the 3s rule! Act in 3 seconds as the default rule,
even if you have no idea how you will continue. If you don't have an opener or opening line in mind by the time you're in front of her, at least just say
"Hi". If you act in 3 seconds, she will notice it, no matter where she just came in from or where you came from or how you passed by each other. She will see
the spontaneity and decisiveness in your approach and it can only work in your favor. If you wait, hesitate, then decide to approach, you are in a weaker
situation. Hesitating will give your self-doubt a chance to create imaginary bad outcomes and add unneeded insecurity to your approach.
With the 3s rule, you don't need to wait for eye contact or for her to notice you or for an opportunity to present itself. You simply see something you like
and you go right up to it. You are also doing yourself a favor by following the 3s rule. In three seconds, you have no time to become nervous, self-
conscious, sweaty, shaky - all the obvious signs of an AFC: lacking confidence, quality, power, or assertiveness, a weakling around women, a pariah to
beautiful girls. Even if you start sweating, or getting shaky or stutter while talking to the woman after following the 3s rule, you weren't that way when
you initiated contact. The first impression is what counts. If that first impression of you is of a confident and spontaneous man, her feelings for you will
be positive from the start, which greatly the minimizes the chance of you turning into a pile of jelly while talking with her. It sets the pace and helps
keep your inner voice at bay, allowing you the chance to keep up your confidence.
The 3s rule, though, is not absolute - you may simply not notice her when she enters your environment, or maybe you'll be tied up with something that might
in some way stop you from approaching her (real obstacles, not your imagined ones). The 3 seconds start counting from the moment you have spotted her and are
free to approach. When those two conditions are met, you really don't have the time to think deep thoughts, or try and figure out whether or not she noticed
that you didn't approach her because you were either too preoccupied, restrained, or simply oblivious - the clock is always ticking, so move it!
"When approaching these chicks, I used Mystery's 3 second rule approach (which I rely on heavily) and tried to pick out something about them to comment on.
It could be a book, something they are wearing, questions about something that they MAY (not necessarily DO) have knowledge on, something we have in common,
whatever."
There is a reason it's a RULE and not just a recommendation. In just about any situation, you are better off approaching quickly and without hesitation after
seeing the chick rather than waiting around to think about the "perfect" opener or hesitating because of self-doubt. Most AFCs just stand/sit around, gazing
at the HB they want to apporach rather than just going up and doing the approach. While they stand/sit there, the voice in their head goes through every
possible rejection scenario and scares the hell out of them. They cause themselves to get nervous and scared and if they finally do get the nerve to do the
approach, they are walking up to her as a quivering pile of jelly. Waiting also creates time for a cockblock to appear. The longer you wait, the more time
gets created for cockblock scenarios to present themselves.
The rule is not chiseled in stone, though, and some circumstances aren't quite 3s material. You can't just walk up to a chick and chat her up while she's
depositing a check at a bank teller window, for example. Also, sometimes you are in a room full of HBs and you need time to scan for ones that you actually
want to approach. You obviously can't approach 2 chicks in 3 seconds who are on different ends of a room. But you also shouldn't stand around for too long if
you've seen a chick that you DO want to approach. Just go and do it. If you can't think of anything, say "Hi." Usually, it's also better to have a default
opener ready for all situations if you want to give yourself more confidence and less reason to hesitate. If you're with a wingman, you may also want to do a
Mr. Smooth type approach. If your target is in a group, you may also want to brush up on group approach techniques.
作者：扫地僧 在 海归酒吧 发贴, 来自【海归网】 http://www.haiguinet.com
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